We explore Durk's childhood through adulthood, from becoming pen pals with Tom of Finland before becoming his muse to starting ToF Foundation, its mission, and his summer working in Fire Island. 

Lea shares a personal history and de-transition story. A discussion around gender and recognizing our own masculine/feminine energy as a spectrum that can help to heal. 

An insight into his origins, Texan connections, renting Fire Island during the Aids crisis, reviving a Horace Gifford, sustainability in design and community living, and a sneak peek at the soon-to-come Aids Memorial.